The
story of the prodigal son is a well-known Bible story. From these three parables, this article would focus on the story
of the prodigal and thereby point out five (5) lessons that could be
learned from the story.
Here are five lessons from the Life of the Prodigal Son.
1. Learn to grow beyond your self-will
In
Luke 15:11-12, we read that a certain man had two sons. The younger of
them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that
falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living. Here, we understand
that the younger son never considered his Father’s opinion on his next
agenda. He acted upon his will and thereby asked his father for his
possessions without thinking about the end. However, it should be noted
in this passage (Luke 15: 11-31) that the Father in the passage is
Jesus/God. So, as Christians, we should always consider the Will of the
Father beyond our own Will so as to not make any error. The Father knows
the end from the beginning and therefore has a lay-down plan for our
lives. Acting on our self-willfulness is literally saying you know the
way and thereby telling the Father to keep His plans for Himself.
Remember, “When you follow your will, you neglect God's will. He’d never
force it on you – He is a Gentle Spirit.
2. Learn to Manage Resources
When
we read further in Luke 15:13-17, we see that not long after the
younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far
country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living.
14 And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want.
15
And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine
did eat: and no man gave unto him. 16 And he would fain have filled his
belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him.
From these verses again, we learn that the result of mismanagement is
hunger and thirst. If spent wisely, the prodigal son would have ended up
getting the best of his inheritance, peradventure he invested his
inheritance in a goodly thing, he’d have ended up getting the best out
of it, however, since he had a wrong motive from the onset, he couldn’t
have a good plan on how to make use of his inheritance or how to invest
it in profitable things.
Likewise, as
Christians, we must understand that it is necessary to overcome
mismanagement. A true believer should never waste God's investment – He
has given us the grace (II Corinthians 6:1) and we should never let His
grace and death be in vain. He has given us talents, which he
continually hopes we make use of and thereby get profitable rewards. God
is never a waster of resources – He makes use of His resources wisely
without any wastage
3. Learn the art of Self-Evaluation
According to Luke 15:17, when he came to his senses, he asked himself saying, "How many hired servants of my
father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger?" The
prodigal son after all he had done realized he was out of the way and
therefore examined himself, thinking of how glorious and wealthy his
Father is – without wasting any time further, he made up his mind to go
home and reconcile to his Father. Knowing your offense and when
to turn back to the Father is the first step to receiving forgiveness,
when you know your offense and know when to turn back, you're a step
towards forgiveness. We know as human beings, being perfect may be a
hard goal to achieve and we know we all are sinners, but knowing your
sins and being ready to ask for forgiveness is an important step in the
pathway of growing to perfection. Self-evaluation can never be
overemphasized in the life of a Christian – we’d surely make mistakes
but knowing your mistakes and being ready to correct them is a blessing.
4. Always acknowledge your offense and ask for Forgiveness
Again, in Luke 15:18-19 and verse 21, the prodigal decided to go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have
sinned against heaven, and before thee, 19 And am no more worthy to be
called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants. 21And the son said
unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and
am no more worthy to be called thy son. As said in the third
lesson, we might not be perfect beyond mistakes, but knowing our sins
and asking for forgiveness is a great step to perfection.
5. God is a Loving Father
Luke 15:20-23
20
And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way
off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his
neck, and kissed him.
22 But the father said to his servants,
Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his
hand, and shoes on his feet: And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill
it; and let us eat, and be merry:
23 For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.
Beyond
the life of the prodigal son, we see the heart of a
loving Father, who despite His son’s mistakes, opens his heart to
receive and have compassion on him.
God is the loving Father. He knows we would always make mistakes, but He’s forever ready to
forgive our mistakes and show us the correct way. For every mistake you might have made (or are making), and you think He’d never forgive you – here is another opportunity to remind
you from the life of the prodigal son that God is a loving Father who is
always ready to have compassion and mercy on you. (Matthew 12:7, Romans
3:23-24, Romans 6:23)
The story of the prodigal son is a
story that teaches a lot about God’s love and compassion. We are not
perfect, but He continually makes us perfect with His unending and
undeserved love.
The parable of the Prodigal Son is a well-known story in the Bible, which teaches us about God's love and forgiveness.
6. Hardwork is Valuable
The value of hard work: The Prodigal Son wasted his inheritance, which he had received without hard work. His life turned around when he started working hard in the fields to earn his keep.
7. Our Actions Have Consequences
The Prodigal Son experienced the consequences of his actions when he was left penniless and had to return to his father's home, where he was not received with open arms.
8. Forgiveness is Important
The father in the parable forgave his son despite his actions, showing the importance of forgiveness in our relationships.
9. Repentance is Powerful
The story of the prodigal son teaches us the power of repentance. The Prodigal Son realized the error of his ways and repented, which allowed him to reconcile with his father. This is just as the scriptures record that if my people who are called by my name shall humble themselves and seek my face
10. Our Decisions Have Powerful Consequences
Of a truth, God has given man the power to choose. However, we must understand that our decisions may have generic or specific impact and consequences on others. In the case of the Prodigal son, we see how his actions not only affected him but also impacted his family.
11. Humility is a Great Virtue
The Prodigal Son had to humble himself and admit his wrongdoing to his father, which was necessary for his reconciliation. This was significant to show humility as a virtue for believers in our world today
12. God's Love is Unconditional
The father in the parable of the prodigal son represents God, who loves us unconditionally and is always ready to forgive us.
13. The importance of second chances
The Prodigal Son was given a second chance to make things right with his father, showing the value of second chances in our lives.
14. Materialism is Dangerous
The Prodigal Son's wastefulness and love for material possessions led to his downfall.
15. There is great Joy in reconciliation
The Prodigal Son's reconciliation with his father brought joy to both of them, showing the power of reconciliation in our relationships.
16. Learn and Understand Timing
The prodigal son was not wrong to leave his father’s house. At different points in the Bible, male sons were required to leave their fathers and start a new life. However, the truth is that if you leave your father’s house at a wrong time, you will suffer for it. You must build capacity to withstand the outside world and as well understand God’s timing before you leave your father’s house.
17. God has all that you need
You see, no charge of parental neglect was laid at the doorstep of the prodigal's father. He was a great role model, supporting his children in all ways (financial and emotion wise especially). He guided them and gave them a room to fail and a place to return. So we read that after a while, the prodigal son needed food - just as some need spiritual food in our world today. The prodigal son ran to his father who had this food in abundance (Luke 15:17). He understood that his father was wealthy and in the same way, believers today must understand that God has what will make you thrive [spiritually, health-wise, ministerially, etc] in abundance. You simply need to run to Him for help today and trust Him to surely restore you as His child, ("for this my SON" Luke 15:24) and strengthen you more.
Don’t Despise Backsliders when they Return
From verse 17, we see that the true change only came when he returned to his senses. A backslidden believer will only return because of the consciousness that they have gone astray. This consciousness is there because of God's love which draws them back so when it comes, you should not despise the backsliders. Instead, be happy for them and welcome them back into God’s large family. This aptly reminds me of Jaymikee’s Welcome Home theme song in the Mount Zion Classic Movie Series, Abattoir.
Conclusion
True fellowship with God entails true worship, studying the Scriptures and prayers among others. How is your fellowship with God like? Is it growing, stagnant or declining? The last two shows a backsliding state. God understands. He understands that you can be busy with normal everyday life AND STILL HAVE A GOOD TIME FOR HIM. That's why He has given you the Holy Spirit to HELP you [with everything all together]. He's powerful!
Are you like this prodigal son? With fleshy desires? Desire to get mad, watch pornography, masturbate, fornicate, lie, etc. What is your weakness? Do they control you instead of God's Spirit? (Galatians 5:16). You should beware of backsliding as that's the only way you can be cured. To do this, simply focus on Jesus as the source of your righteousness.
If you have backslided, please, say this prayer:
Oh Lord, thank you for your grace. I am sorry for going outside your will. Please restore me in Jesus' name. Amen.
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